Hello my friends!
It has been long time I have posted something. I kind of took “days off” mainly after discussion with my family when I heard that someone is not happy about my blog… However that person has not been able to tell me anything by himself/herself and I spent some time thinking about it… But π I am back, happily blogging as it makes my days. Today’s post is not from my kitchen but the next one will again be…
Dear Jealousy,
firstly, thank you for checking my every day’s life here and helping with my blog that way. I have never realised that I am so important to you and to your life even though you do not like my posts. We tend to be obsessed with the ones who seems better. You are the only person who can decide that if all these things matter to you. You can choose to look past the vanities of life, the nonsense that makes look each other as ranking instead of as human beings. You can choose not to care. And you could have done it… People around you were offering it to you, they have offered you their lives, opened their hearts, but you have decided to be consumed by jealousy and make them feel bad and hurt them, constantly and repetitively. You have chosen not to care.
Jealousy is a natural feeling to all of us. But also happiness, joy and to be filled with positive mind and thoughts. The whole world has too much negativity and you have brought it as well…
I am not mad or upset. I feel sorry for you. You have been brought up with jealousy and you might not know any better… I wish you could one day open your eyes, heart and see one day how happiness, people’s heart can change your life. No one wants to end up all alone and forgotten…
Take care of yourself.
Love and happiness β€
I am sorry to hear that someone hurt your feelings about your blog. It does not matter that one person is unhappy it, because you have 719 others that do like it and follow your blog for proof. Keep up the good work! π
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Thank you very much, Robin! β€ That' s exactly what I told myself π It is great to have you, blogger friends, around!
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What? Really? Not happy with your blog? Goodness, dear Vero… block and delete negativity. Not time for this foolishness. Life is too hard as it is, and thank G-d blogging and this communication brings joy to our life. Happy for that you are here and happy for your friendship. Xoxoxoxoxoxo
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Thank you very much, Luda!!! β€ Ah yes… I completely deleted this negativity… I am happy to be back, Luda!!! I need to catch up with your posts! Btw. our garden is growing – it is little jungle now as we have so many tomatoes π π
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Wwwoooowwww- canβt wait to hear more about your garden π·ππ·
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I am going to take some pictures and post something π β€
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You have an awesome blog here Vero, very inspirational and you should continue to do what you do best dear friend. Xx
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Thank you very much, Lorelle! β€ I will definitely do… no time for negativity around me π
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Absolutely lovely π
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Hi Vero– this all sounds very complicated. I can’t imagine how your blog could offend anyone. It’s cheerful and helpful and a lovely picture of your life and family. Have you been able to really talk this through with the person upset?? Do you need to clarify things? So sorry that you have to deal with this– it seems difficult to navigate. So praying things go well and hard feelings can be resolved. You are amazing–hope you can love this person through it all… God bless, xo
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Hello Rhonda! It is complicated and no, unfortunately there is no chance to talk this through… That’s why I felt very sad when it came to me just like that. I do not think there is a “real offense” but jealousy. I do not feel angry or upset, I feel sorry for that person, wish the best and will continue what I like to do β€ Thank you very much for your words, my friend β€
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You are amazing Vero. xox
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β€ Lot of hugs to you, Rhonda!!!
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Vero, I love your blog and have often borrowed some of your ideas for weekend meals( when I have time to experiment). Plus, I feel that you exemplify what blogging is all about : exchanging ideas with others all across the world so that we can all learn and all share. Remember to be yourself -always x
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Thank you very much!!!! β€ Yes, I needed to remind it to myself and that's exactly what it is and that's why I am doing this π
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Keep writing, I enjoy your recipes.
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Thank you very much! β€
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Hi Vero,
so sad to hear that,but you must be aware that heaters are a measure of your success.They are your road sign that you are on the right track. And you are definitely. It is hard sometimes, when they come from family,but that is even the strongest guideline of your success.
In my past, I tried to understand those people, because most of us have the same problem. We start from ourselves. Not everyone is as good as a good man thinks and vice versa.Now, I don’t care for them, and I suggest you to ignore them.
You are doing a great job and I will tell you just one thing!
Stay on your road Vero
Say hello to little buddy Canito
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Hello Ben,
very wise words! Thank you β€ I did try to understand it as well, but there is no point. I can spend energy much better so I am taking your advice! Thanks a lot, Ben!
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I really like your way- wishing him luck and following your heart β€
To give forgiveness is not easy, everybody can’t do…
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Thank you very much π
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